Overcomer
- vablaisep
- Jan 6
- 2 min read

In life, we are constantly surrounded by change. Friends come and go, relationships evolve, and our circumstances shift. It can be easy to feel guilty when we have to let go of certain friendships or when the dynamics of our friend groups change. But it's important to understand that everything in our lives is there for a season. The only constant we can rely on is God.
As we go through different seasons of life, we may find ourselves relying more on certain types of friends than others. We may also discover that we are able to be relied upon more by some friends than others. This is all a natural part of growth and evolution. It's okay for friendships to change and evolve, and it's okay for us to outgrow certain relationships.
It's important to be mindful of how we speak to the people we love. Our words have power, and they can shape the way others perceive us and themselves. Treating someone as replaceable or disrespecting them can have a lasting impact on the relationship. We have the power to train others around us to treat us how we want to be treated.
It's also crucial to understand that being a victim is a choice. While we may have experienced trauma or abuse in the past, we have the power to choose how we respond to those experiences. We can choose to be survivors, overcomers, and children of God who live in freedom and empowerment. By letting go of the victim mentality, we can take control of our lives and shape our own destinies.
I have personally experienced many hardships in my life, but I refuse to let them define me. Instead, I choose to live each day according to God's will and to empower myself to make choices that lead to growth and healing. By turning the other cheek and standing up for myself, I am honoring God and living in alignment with his teachings.
As I continue on this journey of self-discovery and empowerment, I am aware that my personality shift may upset some people. They may not recognize me or know what to expect from me. But that's okay. Change is inevitable, and growth is necessary for personal development. I embrace the uncertainty and the challenges that come with growth, knowing that I am moving towards a better version of myself.
In conclusion, life is full of changes and challenges. It's important to embrace growth, empower ourselves, and live in alignment with God's will. By letting go of the victim mentality, we can take control of our lives and shape our own destinies. Embrace change, empower yourself, and live authentically.
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